The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge: Day 1

How do you respond to “And why are you still single?”

Hmm... Why am I still single?  Many factors come into play when this topic arises.  Possibly the reason why, is because my generation has a different view on marriage. Nowadays, if something is broken, we go buy a new one.  Same pertains to relationships.  If it is broken, we through it away, and get a new mate.  Our frame of mind is altered a little in this department.
     If you meet a person you like, and you are compatible with... don't rush, you have time to get to know one another.  You need to make sure that your relationship will last the test of time.  Not to mention drama from family members.  There's always that one black sheep of the family that likes to stir drama up.  A good relationship starts with a strong foundation...."friendship".  If you are friends first, your relationship has more time to flourish and grow into something beautiful.  Can you imagine spending everyday with your best friend?  That's what all girls want!  I know that's what I want.  I took the long route to get to where I am today.  I'm a divorced single mom who adores her two kids.  My marriage of 8 years fell apart after my Husband decided to tend to the grass on the other side of the fence.  Needless to say, I pushed forward and haven't looked back. So why am I still single two years later?  The first thing that comes to mind is my kids.  I want to be their protector.  The second thing that comes to mind is reserved emotions and I'm scared of being hurt again.  But the last two years have been a journey.  I have found out what I am made of, and I like it!  I like who I am and the direction I am going. So now when I meet someone I can tell right away if they are good for me, or if they are bad for me, I see red flags!  I listen to my instincts now.  They are there for a reason!  When I venture into my next relationship, I will have more to offer to my partner, because I know what I want.  I won't settle for anything but the best.  I'm happy with being single for now.  I do get lonely sometimes.  But for the most part my days are filled with my kids and their activities.  When they are visiting their dad, I have 'me' time and get some deep cleaning done around the house.  That way when they come home, I have more time to spend with them doing fun things!